Tales From Big Mummy’s House: The Magic of Growth

By Efe Ukpebor

When I was growing up, I thought holidays to be the best thing ever. Either of these three things would happen: my cousins would visit us, we (my siblings and I) would spend the holidays playing Power Rangers at their house; or  we would all spend the holidays at Big Mummy’s house.

There was a fourth option though – my cousins would go to visit their grandpa in Benin, while I would seethe in jealousy, having never left Lagos Then. Those holidays spent with siblings and cousins were the absolute best. We would run around the compound till we exhausted ourselves and flopped on the floor, panting.

Another favourite past time was twirling around a pole embedded in cement. We would hold the pole and run around it as fast as we could. To what end, I presently cannot recall. We would only stop when Big Mummy yelled at us to sit still.

Being my mother’s older sister, Big Mummy technically is my auntie, but that’s what we all called her. We called her husband Papa. He was soft-spoken, and was usually in his study, reading. When we were feeling reckless, we would tiptoe to the backyard, each of us feeling slightly afraid of the quiet and the shadows cast by the many trees, and each of us unwilling to say so. If she felt we were being too much of a nuisance, Big Mummy would keep us busy by pulling out a bucket of beans for us to sort. That mindless task usually put us straight to sleep after about 10 minutes.

Besides getting to play and visiting Papa’s library, what I loved the most about Big Mummy’s house was the soil. Yes, the soil. It would give off the beautiful, rich smell when it was about to rain. I would smuggle grains of beans from our sorting exercises, push them through the dark loam that was everywhere, and faithfully water them every day. For a child that had grown up around concrete floors, there was no greater magic than watching those seeds germinate.

Although my beans didn’t grow a stalk arching to the heavens, my success in growing them got me very excited and I wanted to see what else I could plant. Oranges would take forever to grow, Big Mummy said, so I took out some grains of rice from the bag in the store. I would plant and water, but no sprout would come up. Out of desperation, I visited the poultry cages Big Mummy kept, and wangled out some chicken poop with a couple of broomsticks. Manure, you know.


Someone found me determinedly watering the rice seeds and mercifully told me that the rice grains were already parboiled, so they wouldn’t grow. I really was relieved to know that I wasn’t really doing anything wrong, so I focused my energies.
Afterwards, I stuck to planting just beans and the occasional grains of corn. With the chicken poop, my new secret sauce, my seedlings grew taller than everyone else’s.

I remembered this story recently, and it helped to put things in perspective. I had been feeling a certain exhaustion, like I was being pulled in too many different directions at the same time, and so it hit me. I had been putting all of my energy into planting grains of rice that would not germinate, while the grains of beans lay there untended.

Efe Ukpebor: Web writer. Potterhead. Looking out for the next adventure. Follows the man of Galilee.  Follow on Instagram‎ @efenzie

Temi Enemigin

I breathe in music, and exhale words tastefully woven for your soul's pleasure. When high on sarcasm, I could smash your ribs into fine pieces. But whether on a stage, singing out my heart, on in Solitude, scribbling out mysteries, my greatest aim is to bless humanity with the essence of my being.

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17 Responses

  1. Thomas says:

    Nice piece, very captivating.
    I love how it ended, strong message too.
    Thank you.

  2. Eunice says:

    Beautiful piece. Thanks for sharing this.

  3. Peter says:

    I see you Efe……… 🎉🎉🎉

  4. Rabanne says:

    Nice piece!!!

  5. Rashidat says:

    This is nice. I wish I could relive my childhood days for just one day.

    • Temi Enemigin says:

      You can, babe. Just allow your thoughts take you down memory lane. And do that Journey with a pen & notepad. Or your laptop. Whatever, just write. I’d be glad to read.

  6. Zino says:

    Lovely piece.. So I learn to focus my strength in the right direction. Thanks

  7. Emmanuel says:

    Both viable and dead seed hold precious lessons for the discerning. Nice piece

  8. Patiepet says:

    Beautiful piece with a loud Message. Thanks Efe.God Bless you Sis Temi for Posting.

  9. Ase says:

    This actually brought back those beautiful childhood memories stored somewhere in my mind. Thanks for the message in the short story.

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